ok first, given that nofuking body outside japan can legally acquire the game, we are stuck with pirating it, once you acquire the gaem you get something like this:
http://imgur.com/a/g4n5c
then when you unrar the folders you get some Narnia stuff with no sense like this http://i.imgur.com/tJ9B4az.png
ok so you find out that you need to create the folder in documents called "faterealtanua_savedata"
so you do that
then you move all of the files from FATE part to the newly made folder in documents http://i.imgur.com/UqWJG7t.png
Then you extract the CRACK folder and put its contents into the faterealtanua_savedata folder http://i.imgur.com/kCn0Izl.png
Then you DELETE the original FATESABER.EXE and RENAME the crack file to match the original .EXE http://i.imgur.com/rBrQtoy.png
Then comes the patch downloaded from this site and the README clearly says: http://i.imgur.com/84J8PbE.png
After putting ALL of the files in EnglishPatches and Hmod AS WRITTEN in the README you get THIS http://i.imgur.com/e0jiIVr.png
....
Well fuck
...
it works now...
And now i feel stupid, wanted to write a step by step post of how it DIDNT work.. lol
i guess there is no reason for this post now except for others newbies like me to have a step by step tutorial, so if its ok with the mods let this post ramin here