Originally Posted by
Oddmer
... Then, does the job not fall upon us, elders and newcomers alike, to change that? The welcome I got when I first joined the old BL was warm, and everyone was friendly. When I came back here, it was still like that, but... I suppose some things have changed. Perhaps I have not payed it much attention, but, do you not think that, if BL is no longer the friendly, welcoming community it once was, then we should make it such? We being all of us here, who wish to have a pleasant time discussing various TM, Anime and random things.