Speaking of pain, apparently I've been beating most bosses underleveled and with an "unacceptably low" amount of Vigor. So far it's been working out for me with my tried and true DS1 method of "heaviest armor you can carry+ good old greatsword", but tough foes that don't stagger easily are still the bane of my existence. Fortunately so far most named bosses have been on the easy side, especially the ones with NPC summons. Can't wait for Malenia BLADE OF MIQUELLA to squash me into the dust for my arrogance.